I sometimes hear from people who are not at all buying their spouse's
excuse for cheating when the two of them were living apart. Often, jobs,
responsibilities, or circumstances outside of their control mandate
that they have to live separately for awhile. Often, there was no clear
understanding that these living arrangements meant that the marriage was
ending or that the couple was separated. This misunderstanding can
become really important when one of the spouses cheats and relies on the
living situation as justification.
A comment that you might hear
in this situation is something like: "my husband was laid off last
year. We held on for as long as we could, but we were at risk of losing
our home after about six months of unemployment. My husband was offered a
temporary job out of state and we really had no choice but for him to
take it. Housing and food are included in his salary so everything that
he was making could be sent home. Well, one day recently, he texted me
and it was clearly a text that was not meant for me. He accidentally
texted me an email that was meant for the woman he has been cheating on
me with. When I confronted my husband, he said that we were as good as
separated since we hardly ever see one another and are no longer living
together. He said that he was lonely and that I shouldn't blame him. I
was stunned by this. I am obviously well aware of our living situation.
But I just saw it as something that we had to do. Our marriage did go
through a rough period because of the stress of never having enough
money. But I never thought that we were on the verge of breaking up. And
I never considered myself to be separated. I honestly thought that once
his temporary job was over, he would come home and we would resume our
married life since we would now get to keep the house. Now, my husband
is alluding to the fact that he might just stay where he is. I'm floored
and enraged by this. To me, this is cheating, the same way it would be
cheating if we lived together. I certainly wouldn't cheat on my husband
just because he wasn't living with me. Where do we go from here?"
I
certainly can give an opinion on this, but I can't make a decision
about moving forward, as this is a decision that only the couple
themselves could make. What ultimately happened in the future was going
to depend upon what they both wanted moving forward. The husband had
indicated that he may stay put in his new home, but this could honestly
be posturing. He may have said that just to put in the wife in the
position to be begging him to come home.
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